You are so very right Tony. She has been pushing me to my limits lately. Just one
example: She's been wanting to try cheerleading for ages, so I signed her up for this Little Cheer program. It's three days of practice to learn the cheer and they get to perform at the high school girls basket ball game. All good, right? Wrong. She's teary because it's not what she expected, she spent two days (of a four day program) debating whether she wanted to go through with it. After I wrote the check of course.
I could deal with all that if she just said she wasn't enjoying it and wanted to stop. But, she had a hard time deciding (she's going through with it, today is the 3rd practice) and she somehow has made it ALL MY FAULT!
She's a huge blamer and that is one of my biggest peeves.