I'm looking after my neighbour's cat this week. This particular cat used to be my cat, but she went to live downstairs due to all the time I was away.
Since she's been down there she has learned that she likes to drink water from the running bathroom tap and, when I go to feed her, I have to stand there while she has a long drink. Talk about bossy!
Look, you've got it all wrong! You don't NEED to follow ME, You don't NEED to follow ANYBODY! You've got to think for your selves! You're ALL individuals!
Yes! We're all individuals!