Thats just how it is,though.People say "Oh,I can´t understand why soandso and soandso are splitting up.He´s such a nice guy,my Mum always said so,they have a lot of money,and she is such a pretty,reserved,ladylike person.I really wish I was in their shoes." and then it turns out he´s been cheating on her for years because other daughters´mums said the same thing,and she gambles and drinks and they haven´t got all that much money and have to sell the manor to pay the divorce.
I know a couple I always thought were the dream pair.I always thought him rather a hottie,even,he looks a lot like Jean Reno and she´s such a sweet person.I always wished I could have had a marriage like theirs.and then I meet her in the market for the first time in ages and ask how they are and she says,oh,we´ve split up a year ago,he´s taking it quite badly but I feel really happy for the first time in years.And then I met him at the DIY store and ddin´t really know what to say.
And then you start wondering what you really know about people.People always tell me my Ex is such a nice person,they can´t imagine he´s being so "difficult".
........And I really like her....and the kids......and we´ve known them for years and years......so of course I can´t go dating him,or flirt,now can I?Besides,you always think:what exactly was it that made her leave him..........Aarrrrghhh!
But really...Jean Reno.....and then I think to myself,woman,how stupid can you get???
It´s still magic even if you know how it´s done.