Tina a.k.a.SusanSto.Helit wrote:the woman told me of a man she had to kick out when he asked one of her younger workers to wax his booty.
Was it Turtle Wax?
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kakaze wrote:Tina a.k.a.SusanSto.Helit wrote:the woman told me of a man she had to kick out when he asked one of her younger workers to wax his booty.
Was it Turtle Wax?
Sarka wrote:I'm going to intrude and go back to subject of the opening post briefly.
I cared for people with dementia in many of it's forms, both in acute admissions, and the later stages in private care homes. This illness brings a lot of obvious negatives for any person told they have it.
In my experience, each person has an entirely unique experience and presentation. Some people are really content, others not so. Others, in fact don't seem to mind that much and pretty much ignore it, carrying on as before as much as they can, gently accepting of change.
It's not always bad, all of the time. Whilst I cried when I first heard the news about Terry's illness, his strength, research and humour has made me feel such a big girls blouse for crying in the first place. I remembered a lot of people from the past, who showed the same spirit of revolt in the face of dementia, and who made the best of bloody bad luck.

Sarka wrote:In my experience, each person has an entirely unique experience and presentation. Some people are really content, others not so. Others, in fact don't seem to mind that much and pretty much ignore it, carrying on as before as much as they can, gently accepting of change.
Tina a.k.a.SusanSto.Helit wrote:Thank you Sarka. A professional's viewpoint is greatly appreciated, and I also feel like a Big Girl's Blouse for crying over it when I do, but I have to remember that he is a strong man and is getting the same type of help that Stephen Hawking is and that they both have very unique ways of coping and truly odd senses of humour, both of which I ADORE.
We tend to be a little .... digressive about topics and I think this thread it becomes a brain-pain, eyes hurting from tears, emotional avoidance thingy sort of fing. If you know what I mean. Thank you so much for that input tho. It helps a lot. (((Hugs)))
Lady Vetinari wrote:Sarka
I think that Nurses are the real heroes in the NHS, they work long, hard hours, putting up with tumours, humours, and various other ailments ending in ours. Bed bathing, helping patients to the loo - and all sorts of mucky thankless jobs and get paid PITTANCE!
Then there are over-paid over-hyped sports and celebs (Jordan, Peter Andre, David Beckham ... that ILK!) THAT get called Heroes and whinge whenever they break a nail!!!!!!!
So, all my admiration and respect goes to your former calling and I am sorry that it has all gone down hill!
kakaze wrote:I would agree with that. I've also worked as a caregiver in an assisted living facility for people with dementia. Of course, the term "dementia" covers a very wide range.
kakaze wrote:I would guess that how people cope with it depends on how much they used their mind before, which part of the mind their disease attacks, and what they've got hidden in their subconcious (and, of course, their personality).
Lady Vetinari wrote:Sarka
I think that Nurses are the real heroes in the NHS, they work long, hard hours, putting up with tumours, humours, and various other ailments ending in ours. Bed bathing, helping patients to the loo - and all sorts of mucky thankless jobs and get paid PITTANCE!
Then there are over-paid over-hyped sports and celebs (Jordan, Peter Andre, David Beckham ... that ILK!) THAT get called Heroes and whinge whenever they break a nail!!!!!!!
So, all my admiration and respect goes to your former calling and I am sorry that it has all gone down hill!

chris.ph wrote:i think nurses are a pain in my arse![]()
and if i find out who shaved my arse off im going to wax their head
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Sarka wrote:Blimey! What happened to you?
chris.ph wrote:the first time i had a colonoscopy they gave me an alcohol based sedative it was supposed to knock me out , it didnt even touch me the doctor asked me how much i could drink so i told him about 16pints , he just shook his head and laughed id just absorbed the equivelant of about 12 pints and was still talking normally. i asked for my specs back and they moved the telly so i could watch, the procedure was progressing , taking biopsys and such when i spotted a black mark in my colon and asked the doctor what it was, he said it was my appendix, i then asked him "how bloody far are you up there"![]()
the one they knocked me out for the week b4 last was funnier. i got home and had a bath as i was drying my arse i yelled out "f@@@@@@ h@@@" my misses thought there was something wrong and asked if i was ok and i yelled back that the b@@@@@@s had shaved my arse when i was out cold. she nearly wet herself laughing![]()
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