I'm not talking about MY number.... I am just curious what number YOU come up with. You know... getting inside the male mind....
My husband knew my "number" though I did lose count by then... most of the "number" having been accumulated IN my early twenties. He thought it was a very fine effort on my part.... but as he put it so beautifully... "Well aren't I lucky you have known men so well and chose ME as your only." He felt exceedingly proud of that.... and a very healthy attitude it was too.
As it should be.
I find it exceptionally rude for a man to even enquire about a "number" or to make a judgement on any woman. Its a dealbreaker for me.